Showing posts with label True meaning of love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label True meaning of love. Show all posts

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Meaning of Love

Love has never been defined from the time man gave birth. It is because Love differs from person to person. Love differs from heart to heart. Each and every body has their own meaning of love depending on their own experience. Love is happy and love is sad. All the humans born in this world love something. When you love something it makes you comfortable. In one way or the other people will feel that they are in love. When you are being in love it doesn't tire you, because love is kind and it doesn't have desire. When love is true then it doesn't allow you to get angry and it keeps no wrong account. Love has the power of undergoing all things. So love has grate value and it has no end.

Love is respectable and wants to help other person in every aspect and protect them from all the harm. When two people care for each other so much, they will go to the end of the world to be with each other and do anything for one another. But no one can explain Love. There is no explanation for love but it is only a feeling.

You love somebody more than you care for yourself. You love somebody to make them happy and make your self happy. Then you are absolutely right. Love can be described in that way. If your own wants and needs don't matter to you as long as that person is happy, then that is true love.

True love stands together in equality and balance to what is honest, true and caring and not only about idealistic love. It is a kindness of heart, soul, and mind. True love can be definite and is also a given, known and joint when two people "share" in it.

Love is affection, a sentiment that cannot be explained. Either you feel it or you don't. We call it 'love' because there is no explanation for it. It is not a lucid, prearranged action. When you can't reduce that feeling then you call it love. Love has no meaning at all! It is the very spirit of our being, it is Life itself!

No one can explain love; love is not something that can be easily explained. It is a feeling that each and everyone should feel at least once in their life. Of course it can be expressed but as to explain well it is difficult, as everyone's love is different.

So love is grate and all human must love each other and should be the example to others. Our creator (god) wants us to love our neighbors and those are the people who will enter into god's kingdom. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not feel jealousy, it does not boast, it is not arrogant. It is not offensive, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily annoyed, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not enjoy in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.

But actually the true meaning of love is to attain salvation before you die because salvation is complete love. Salvation is achievement of complete peace by means of self realization. When you are self realized you actually know that you are soul and not body. If you do good Karma you can easily attain salvation in the end. A single glimse of the ultimate peace inside you can give enormous joy. Love stories are great examples of that. You might have noticed that 2 lovers loving each other are ready to die but do not want to get seperated. Such kind of a love story between two lovers is a glimse of the complete peace inside. So if you are in true love with someone do not consider it as a small thing.This is the greatest gift of God and it tells the true meaning of love. Just read the love story at the home page of this site which is a pure love at first sight. That will better make you understand what true meaning of love is and how love can completely change your life.


Some people consider the meaning of love as having lot of sex before or after marriage. Such people havent yet experienced the true love in their life. So they consider sex as love. But this is not true. You might have noticed the love of mother for you. Love of mother is pure. So is the pure love between two true lovers, where they dont want anything from each other. They are the soul mates. They cannot be seperated ever. Someone can seperate their body but cannot seperate their soul from each other because they are one soul in two bodies. Achieving such a love is the real meaning of life.

True meaning of love

Every one of us experience love everyday. You may not be really feeling it, but you do love some thing. If you love your job, you feel like getting to your office at the earliest. You are in love with your job. True meaning of love for job can be derived at the number of leaves/holidays you take off your job. If you do not enjoy your work, you will be in a hurry to leave the office and do some thing else, that interest you. You need to think over what interests you most and what enjoy doing most. Then, you will realize the true meaning of love for your job.

People experience different types of love in the same family. Brother's love, Sister's love, parent's love etc. No one teaches you to love. It is emotional and it just happens. It is natural. You can not practice love to make it better. You may try to improve your attitude and behavior towards the loved one and be expressive in words or actions. The true meaning of love is not to expect an acknowledgement of your love. You just give your love. Do not expect any return.

While we compare different types of love, mother's love is above all and defines the true meaning of love. Mother gives birth, takes care of the child and never expects anything in return, She does not feel that as a job or duty, that she has to take care of the child. She just does it. Fathers tend to provide all the comfort for their children, but not all fathers provide the comfort, mothers provide to her child.

Popular love stories, Devdas or Romeo-Juliet, talk of selfless love and reflect the true meaning of love. People sacrifice everything for their love. Self destruction in love is a pity and one need to be practical. The person who has experienced a failed love shall not take extreme steps of self destruction as there may be many other people who love them and they will be devastated. They say, it is better to share life with the person who loves you rather with a person whom you love, but he/she does not love you!!

It is a general opinion that true love demands sacrifice. It is true partly. But, then, it is the choice of the individual and the circumstances he/she is in. The person sacrificing does not think about sacrifice or true meaning of love, but just does what he/she thinks is right, particularly for the beloved one. However, the people around may consider his/her sacrifice as foolish action. But then, ask the person who sacrificed some thing about what he got in return. I am sure that he/she has no complaints!

In some Indian families the eldest child of the family gets the burden of managing the family, if the sole bread winner of the family dies suddenly. This eldest child takes up the responsibility and takes care of his/her brothers and sisters. They ensure that the siblings settle comfortably in their lives and see them get educated and/or married. This person, be it a male or female, even sacrifice getting married and raising their own family. This may be termed as true meaning of love. Some argue that it is the duty as the eldest in the family to take care of the family and not to term as true meaning of love. But, is this not a sacrifice? What would you do in that situation? You need lot of conviction and commitment to accept such challenge and sacrifice for the other members of the family.

To be true, true meaning of love is the true love of God. And a True love story is just a small fraction of the complete love of God which originates from our soul. Once you have a taste of True love with some girl or boy, you can also understand how deeper love, the love of God will be. Some people think, they have already experienced the true love when they fell in first love and there is nothing more then that. You need to understand love of soul inside you is the ultimate love and your first love was just a fraction of it. So make your desire more higher to attain the ultimate love through self realization and Meditation .What you see everything is just a myth. there is nothing other then soul and you are soul and not body.